![]() ![]() It takes a awareness and consciousness to address it and put your mind on a different path because as long as your in the mindset that your height and race is the determining factor of your romantic/sexual success, then nothing can be done. And the more you stay with that mindset, the more “right” you become. Notice the comparative nature of your thoughts. “Asian” is a label placed on people that are born within or descendants of people from a location. Like, literally they do not mean anything by themselves. and plop him in Sweden and all of a sudden he is short. A black man is a normal man to see in any urban city in the U.S. and fascinating to see in Japan simply due to his race. The effect and perception of race and height vary.Īs a 5’7” Vietnamese American - I have my fair share of insecurities revolving around my identity too - don’t get me wrong, but over time it has mattered less and less - and even has become an advantage. Our food, our traditions, our parties, the real and funny stereotypes and archetypes our family falls into, our culture as a whole. ![]() In romance, these are the things I share for people to understand a part of me. On Tet - Lunar New Year, I took a white girl to a festival to go see fireworks and that was an amazing thing for me to share and for her to experience. I love asking the people I meet about their culture and experiencing it for myself. Culture is a part of you - it makes you even more unique in my eyes.
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